To love or not to love
Love is really a
mystery thing. It never fails to amaze or surprise me. Every time I
thought I know so much about it, it just give me a flick and I am back
where I was, confused and lost. Last week, a girl told me that when it
comes to love, there is actually a certain threshold, gauge or
measurement to it. Well, not that you can put a number to it but it can
be classified into 2 categories.
First,
if she love you a lot, but not enough that she won’t turn tail and
leave the moment a better suitor come along or when shit hit the fence
in the relationship. There is no way of telling or knowing. Coz that
happens to married coupler too.
For
the other love, it is the one that she love you so much that no matter
what or how much Bull Shit (BS) the guys throw at them, the girl will
always take stick with them. The guy might leave them for another girl
but later return when that new relationship doesn’t work out. Yet the
girl always let them back. Why coz they learn their lesson? LoL. Who
you trying to kid?
Once a girl fallen completely for a guy, you can be
amaze just how much BS the girl can endure in the name of love. Is it
because they become too dependent on they guys? Coz all girls like to
be protected, pamper and look after by guys that once they got so used
to it that renounce their ability to live alone? That they start
falling apart the moment that guy is no longer in their equation? Was
it
this fear that kept them in crappy relationship? Or just the longing
that thing used to be better and might be again? Normally the girl only
left when she broke down or the guy drop dead suddenly… haha tough luck on that
happenning..
I
know all this coz I see it happening all the time around me and I did
play my part in such relationship before. Try as I might, I dun think I
am going to understand it, but one thing I do know is, if the girl is
willing to put up with so much BS in a relationship, she is definitely
one person that you can relied on and share your life with till old
age. The sad thing is most guy dun realise the love that they had till
thing turn so sour till the extended of no turning back.
